Really.

This is what I found on familysearch.org under Irish Births and Baptisms.  Joseph Alexander Mackey Edward Savage Cole is the man known to my husband and his siblings as Edwin Savage Cole, their grandfather.

Edwin or Joseph or whoever he is was the last of seven children born to James Cole and Sophia Jameson Cole in Ballybay, County Monaghan, Ireland.  The family emigrated, apparently by teleportation, to Nebraska about three months after Edwin’s, (let’s just call him Edwin or even the family will stop reading) birth in February 1873.

James Cole and Sophia Jameson Cole

I have stared at the entry in Ireland Births and Baptisms for quite a while and I have almost reached the conclusion that this is a simple transcription error appending the record of Edward Savage Cole to that of Joseph Alexander Mackey.  The birth date is February 16, three days after the birth date for Edwin given by other sources.

I was happy with my conclusion until I continued to search through the Irish records on familysearch.  It seems that all of James and Sophie’s children were entered in some bizarre Irish witness protection program at birth.

Here is what I know about Edwin’s sibs.

 

John M Cole, the oldest, was born April of 1862.  His birth information is listed in any number of places, but not in Irish Births and Baptisms.  In spite of the label 1620-1881 on the database, the civil registrations in Ireland didn’t begin until 1864, two years after John was born.  John M had an interesting life as a Seventh Day Adventist missionary and I will probably post about that some day, but I am going to stick with the Irish witness protection plan for this post.

 

Robert Cole, born–maybe.  The only record I have of Robert is in my mother-in-law’s notes.  She got this information from someone in the Cole family, and since I have never found an error in anything my mother-in-law said or wrote about the family, I believe that there was a Robert, but I have never been able to find out anything about him. I imagine that Robert died when he was a child, but I’m not entirely sure that he isn’t just in hiding.

 

David Moore Cole, born November 25, 1864.  David is in the registry and under the name we have always known him by, so there could be a small hole in the witness protection plan theory, but David was only 29 when he died.  The rest of his siblings all lived to 80, maybe because no one knew their real names.

Carty Cole

 

James Cathcart Cole is the fourth sibling, known in the family as Carty. He was born May 31, 1866.  In Irish Births and Baptisms he is listed as William James Cathcart Cole.  Carty continued to confuse matters by generally refusing to use his name in any documentation, calling himself J.C. or C.J., according, perhaps, to his mood of the day.

Will Cole

Will Cole is the next son.  Born on August 27, 1868 and apparently actually named Samuel William Andrew Cole.  He generally used the name William A in the census and other official documents.

Eliza Jane Cole

Eliza Jane, born on January 23, 1870, was James and Sophie’s only daughter. She is identified correctly on the birth index.  Perhaps, leaning on past experience and coping with five or six children under the age of eight, James and Sophie were simply unprepared for the birth of a girl and could only come up with two simple names, listed in the correct order.  Eliza is also an interesting person, working as a Seventh Day Adventist minister most of her life and marrying for the first time at the age of 50.

 

And finally, in 1873 along came Edwin.

Edwin Cole

So Edwin is Joseph or Edward, Carty is William, and William is Andrew. Is this a normal Irish naming convention?  Did they simplify things for themselves and their children when they arrived in America?  Either could be true or there could be any number of other possible explanations.  Believe what you like but I’m sticking with the Irish Infant Witness Protection Program.

 

 

 

I thought I would start the ball rolling for Judy, by writing something about Charlotte M. Davies. When Judy sent me a GEDCOM, lo these many years ago, of the Davies family, I got interested in the Tytus family. The Tytus family was from Middletown, Ohio which is not so far from Cincinnati and some of my family lines. It turns out that it isn’t easy to track the Davies, or Charlotte who married into the Tytus family. Here is a first take on her life.

Charlotte Mathilda Davies was born in Newark, New Jersey on the first of October, 1852 (1). She was the youngest (at least found) of the children born to John May Davies and Alice Sophia (Hopper) Davies. Her next oldest siblings were her sister Alice, who was 5 years older, and her brother Cornelius, who was 6 years older. These three formed almost a second family for the elder Davies. Two sons had died young, in 1845 and 1846, and then there were the oldest siblings who had been born in the late 1830s and who probably were out of the house by the time Charlotte was born. The federal census of 1850 only listed older sister Louisa and then Alice and Cornelius at home. I haven’t yet found the 1860 census listing this Davies family.

Davies 1870 census

The 1870 census found the family consisting of John and Alice (parents), the two daughters (Alice and Charlotte), and 6 servants. Son Cornelius lived next door (? or was enumerated as a separate household anyway) with his young wife and a gardener. And here I will leave the Davies for Judy to pursue.

Charlotte was married June 24, 1874 to Edward Jefferson Tytus. Edward was born August 22, 1847 in Middletown, Ohio to Francis Jefferson and Sarah (Butler) Tytus (2). He was “prepared for college at home by Mr. J. F. Elder” and attended Yale College, graduating in the class of 1868. It seems likely, though there is no documentation found yet, that Edward and Charlotte met in New Haven as a result of his connection with Yale. He was in the paper warehouse business in Milwaukee, following his graduation, first with a younger brother and then as Tytus, Van Buren and Co. His partnership was dissolved in the fall of 1874, following his marriage. April of 1875 found Edward and his young wife applying for a passport and traveling to Europe. This may have been their honeymoon trip. According to the biography published for his Yale class, Edward and Charlotte returned to the United States from Europe in the fall of 1875 since Edward’s health was bad. Edward had been advised to spend the winter in more salubrious weather than Connecticut or New York, so they went to Asheville, North Carolina. Edward and Charlotte’s only child, a son named Robb DePeyster Tytus or maybe Robert Davies Tytus, was born in Asheville in February 1876. (This son has his own interesting story and will probably show up in a post of his own at some point.) Edward died of tuberculosis 19 May 1881, at Saranac Lake, New York.

Charlotte was 29 years old when she was widowed and left with a young son. It seems likely that she returned to the house in New Haven to live with her mother at first. A number of city directories for New Haven show her as there from 1882 to 1896, and for some of that period her son was a Yale student. The directory for 1898 lists both of them as removed to New York. An article about New York American Guild of Organists (3) reports that Mrs. Charlotte Tytus acquired or built a townhouse at 10 East 77th Street around 1896 and lived there until about 1904. From 1882 on, Charlotte traveled to Europe frequently, and in Egypt

Charlotte M. Tytus, c 1920

with her son. This picture, from her 1920 passport application, is one of two I have found of her so far.

Around 1920 or 1921 Charlotte became more actively involved with the Dominican Fathers, and she is credited with having founded Blackfriars in Oxford, England, although it seems more accurate to note that she contributed the financial means to purchase the property that houses the group (4,5). She spent more and more time abroad: her son died (also of tuberculosis) in 1913 and she and her daughter-in-law may not have gotten along particularly well. Her daughter-in-law had also remarried. The article on Blackfriars includes information about Charlotte and her life, not all of which is accurate, and notes the many unanswered questions about this solitary woman. Charlotte died in London, at the Dorchester Hotel, 2 April 1936. She had outlived her husband, her son, her daughter-in-law, and all of her siblings. She had two granddaughters, from whom she seems to have been estranged.

1 “New Jersey Births and Christenings, 1660-1980.” index, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org): accessed 11 February 2012. entry for Charlotte Davies, born 1 October 1852; citing Births Newark City V. L 1848-1867 , FHL microfilm 584562; Index entries derived from digital copies of original and compiled records.

2 Wright, Henry Parks, Yale College Class of 1868. History of the class of 1868: Yale College, 1864-1914. New Haven : Tuttle, Morehouse & Taylor Press, 1914. This year of birth has been used in a number of references. However, a compilation about the Butler family, “The Family of Rev. John Butler” lists his birth year as 1845. So far I have not discovered any primary source of evidence.

3 http://www.nycago.org/Organs/NYC/html/ResTytusCM.html, website accessed 2/11/2012

4 Kerr, Fergus. Mrs. Tytus: Founder of Blackfriars, Oxford. New Blackfriars, 2006 87 (1007), 72-82

5 http://www.bfriars.ox.ac.uk/about_dominicans.php, accessed 2/12/2012

I am short of time this week, so I am reposting  one of my posts that continues to get a lot of looks.  When I first posted this story almost two years ago I intended to follow with the rest of the story over the next few months.  Time passed.  I have become so involved with this story that I can’t finish it.  There is always one more thing that would make it perfect.  I am hoping to abandon the quest for perfection and finish telling what I know of this story this year.  Here is the original; I hope you will stick  around to hear the rest.

 

The Davies Mansion–The  Genealogy of a House

 

This is the beginning of a long story.  It involves the history of a house, several families, a culinary school and a university and it has become the obsession of this genealogist.  This story has it all, a family flush with new wealth created in the age of the Industrial Revolution, servants just arrived from Ireland or the southern states, labor history, illness, family lawsuits, religious strife, conflict between town and gown, fact, fiction, rumor and innuendo. I begin where it all began for me.

The House

393 Prospect Street.  When I arrived in New Haven in the late 70′s  Prospect Street was a lovely neighborhood with a few big old houses and some university buildings.  The remaining old buildings were being purchased by Yale University as they became available.  And there on the top of Prospect Hill surrounded by a large expanse of weedy empty space was a big, beautiful old house, 393 Prospect Street.  When I asked about it, everyone knew it was the Davies Mansion; no one knew anything about it.  It will come as no shock to anyone who knows me or anyone who reads my pieces in this blog that I had to find out.  First, the facts about the early years.

In 1867 John M Davies, a wealthy industrialist, a manufacturer of men’s furnishings, commissioned Henry Austin, a well-known Victorian architect, to build a grand house for himself and his family in the finest part of town. Austin was responsible for many of New Haven’s finest buildings and when this one was completed it would be the city’s largest home with an interior of 19,000 square feet, 23 rooms, and seven acres of lawns and gardens.  Once it was surrounded by the mansions of Eli Whitney, Oliver Winchester, and other wealthy manufacturers, today it is the only one of the grand mansions still standing. John Davies lived in the house for a few brief years before he died in 1871.   His widow Alice lived on in the house until her death in 1898. I’m not sure who lived in the house between 1898 and 1911, but in 1911 the house was sold to Thomas Wallace.  Wallace was the owner of Wallace and Sons, a prosperous wire manufacturing company in nearby Ansonia.  He lived in the house on Prospect Street with his family until his death in 1946.  In 1947 the house was sold to the Culinary Institute of America.

The Drawing Room

photos courtesy of the Culinary institute of America

Culinary students taking a break

The Culinary Institute of America is now located in Hyde Park, NY and is the premier culinary institution of this country.  In 1947 it was known as the Restaurant Institute of Connecticut.  Although common place now, this was the first culinary school in America.  I love food.   I love to cook; I love to eat ; I love to look at food.  I can’t resist a brief aside here.

The Restaurant Institute

The 1950′s was an interesting time for American cuisine; one of its admirable goals was to free American housewives from their daily grind, with labor saving devices and quick to prepare foods.  This was the time when the idea was floated that one day we could just swallow a pill for dinner and have all our nutritional needs satisfied. Foodies like myself consider the 50′s to be the long, dark night of the soul for American cooking.  The Culinary Institute was one of a few places that kept the idea of American cuisine alive until we came to our senses.

At any rate the house was converted to a school. Yes, the interior changed, but the basic structure was well maintained.  From the outside the house looked as it had since 1868.   The Restaurant Institute became the Culinary Institute of America causing a few double takes as students walked around New have in sweatshirts with CIA emblazoned on the front.  And so it went until the Culinary Institute of America outgrew its New Haven home and moved to Hyde Park.  Yale University bought the property in 1972.

Restaurant Institute–courtesy of the CIA

And here the story of neglect and claims and counterclaims, movie offers and refusals and ultimately redemption begins.  Yale purchased the house and the land surrounding it with the intention of making use of empty land in an area that was rapidly being built up with university properties.   What is fact is that Yale did little maintenance on the house after its purchase, using it as a storage building. Yale moved to demolish the house in 1980 and preservationists fought against the move.  Local rumor says there are firefighters from that time who say they were told to simply let the building go if there was a fire.

In 1980 the university announced plans to tear the house down and the building became something of a cause celebre among Yale students.  The Yale Ad Hoc Committee to save the Davies House printed bumper stickers that changed Yale’s motto from “For God, for country, and for Yale” to ” For God, for country, and for the Davies Mansion”.  200 people rallied in front of the secretary’s office just before Yale’s announced demolition date of March 31, 1980.  The group included representatives of the Connecticut Trust for Historical Preservation, the State Historical Commission and the New Haven Preservation Trust.  Just about everyone who cared about preservation was represented.  At the last moment the deadline was extended, and in July of 1980 a development proposal was accepted.

The headline in the New Haven Register reads “Historic Davies house to be reborn as an inn”.  Arthur Fisher, head of Fisher Associates put forth a proposal to open a lovely Victorian Inn, preserving the old house and recreating some of its former glory.  The university accepted.  Another headline in the Register reads, “Hunt on for treasures stripped from Davies”.  Many things had gone missing, the fine mantel pieces, all kinds of wonderful architectural details, the hand carved banisters were all among the missing.  Everyone accused everyone else, but no matter, things would be found or recreated and the inn would open its doors in 1981.

Six more years would pass. Again, the stories of what happened in those six years vary, but, finally, a lease was signed, the boards came off, and work began.  Then Fisher ran out of money.  But all was not lost, another development firm offered to take over the building with Yale’s approval.    Yale refused.  Apparently, to quote Marsha Ryan of the Yale real Estate Office, “Yale had a chance to reflect on how we wanted to use the building and decided to use it for academic purposes.”  Work would begin shortly to prepare the building for academic use.

More years passed.  Then in 1990 two things happened.  There was a fire that caused considerable damage to the house and  in the next bizarre twist in the saga the old place was apparently creepy and kooky enough that the producers of the Addams Family movie thought it was the perfect house for Gomez and Morticia.  An offer was made to use the property and restore it, which the university refused.  This was taken as proof positive by some that the university had no intention of saving the mansion.  University spokesmen said the university was concerned  about all the disruption involved in a Hollywood production.   Whatever the truth of all this, eight more years passed.  Finally in 1998 an agreement was reached between Yale and the preservationists to preserve four historic buildings including the Davies Mansion. The exterior of the mansion was restored by 2000.  In 2001 Yale alumni Roland Betts donated five million dollars toward the renovation of the Davies Mansion. The renovation cost about fourteen million dollars before its completion in 2002.

The good news, really great news, is that once the university decided to restore the place they decided to do it right.  The first floor has been returned to its nineteenth century glory. The fourteen-foot high ceilings and spacious rooms have been preserved; original moldings, window frames and mantels have been preserved or replaced. The beautiful grand staircase greets visitors once again.  Colors and flooring are true to the original house.  The second and third floors are more modern in their design. The building now renamed the Betts House serves as the Center for Globalization, providing a home and meeting space for visiting scholars from all over the world.

In 2009 the Maurice Greenberg Conference Center was added to the grounds and attached to the house. Of course, there are a variety of opinions on this.  It would be lovely if the old place still stood alone, preserved as a museum of days past, but that was never a possibility. Personally, I think it is a good compromise both meeting the needs of the university and preserving the house for future generations.

This  is the end of the story of the physical structure, at least for the moment, but families lived and died and loved and fought in that house.  Their stories will follow in a few weeks or months and they are even more interesting than the story of the house.

 

Well, January was not so productive as I had anticipated. I was so optimistic at the beginning of the month, but somehow my follow-through didn’t.

Research
* Go through and enter every piece of information stored over the year in Research 2011 folder for husband’s side. Source in RootsMagic database.
* Figure out what original records are available from the LDS Library for direct lines.

Organization
* Back up the blog. I always put this on my calendar, and try very hard to remember to back up on the first of the month. While I have most of my computer files backing up to an online server, the blog isn’t part of that automatic system. I wonder if there is a way to automate backing it up? [This is still a good question and I will look into it.]
* Go through the last inbox and remaining pile from the middle inbox, and see what is lurking there to be put away, entered into the database, etc. [I did make a little progress on this one. And I ordered and received archival boxes to store the photo albums and over-size photographs in. I just need to get the albums and photos into their boxes and the boxes stacked on the shelving.]

Education
* Watch one online video or webinar about genealogy. [I watched Marian Pierre-Louis's webinar for Legacy on Discovering your Massachusetts Ancestors. She is a great speaker to listen to and she really knows her stuff.]

While it continues to be clear that I need to have some clean-up time, I haven’t accomplished it yet. I cannot yet report I have a clean desk and am able to see what my goals need to be for my husband’s family history. This does still seem like a reasonable goal, however, so I will work on chipping away at it.

Entrance, Ohio Military Institute

Having recently written about my mother’s high school experiences, I decided I should do the same about my father. I don’t have a copy of his high school yearbook. I just discovered that the school (which was a military institute) did have yearbooks while he was a student, but I haven’t yet found a copy. What I do have is several pages from his mother’s scrapbook showing pictures and handwritten notes about her son.

As I have written before, my paternal grandmother lost her first husband and then her second within less than 10 years. She had few job skills and little way to provide for herself and her son. She had moved from the family farm into Felicity, Ohio and that is where my father started school and went through elementary and junior high school. At the same time, she was frequently away from home doing nursing jobs and her mother, Elizabeth Boothby, took care of my father. Thus, the two of them showed up in Felicity Ohio in the 1930 federal census while my grandmother was in Cincinnati living in a tuberculosis sanatorium as a nurse when the census was taken. My grandmother was apparently exhibiting increasing mental problems during this time period, of what variety I am not sure. She was overly attached to my father, that I do know.

Clifford B. Salt, 1931

At any rate, when my father got to be high school age, several people (including a physician my grandmother worked for and my father’s aunt) recommended strongly that my father be sent to a local boarding school rather than attending high school in Felicity and living at home with his mother and/or grandmother. So it was arranged that he would attend the Ohio Military Institute in Cincinnati. In September 1931, 3 months shy of 14 years old, he started high school at Ohio Military Institute.

The scrapbook record shows that my father joined the fraternity, Alpha Chi Sigma, played basketball for several years,

Basketball team, 1932-33


and was a good student who progressed through the ranks. I haven’t yet found out anything about the fraternity he joined, besides the name. There is a college fraternity of that name which is a chemistry and chemical engineering society but I don’t know that this is the same one. Based on Wikipedia, there do seem to be two different ones, but the high school fraternity isn’t any further described.

Newsclippings included in Carrie’s scrapbook show that my father won scholarship honors (not sure what that means exactly) and was promoted to

Award for best-drilled company


cadet captain. His graduating year he was selected best all-round cadet officer, and his company was the best-drilled. My grandmother was clearly very proud of him.

And now I understand where his stated activities and interests on his college application came from (“military drills and sports” as well as swimming, basketball and reading). I always thought the military drills sounded somewhat at odds with the college he applied to – Antioch College.  The interests in sports, especially swimming, and in reading were shared by my parents and likely some of the first things that drew them together.

Class of 1935

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