{"id":5652,"date":"2013-10-14T08:00:57","date_gmt":"2013-10-14T12:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/?p=5652"},"modified":"2013-10-02T08:41:24","modified_gmt":"2013-10-02T12:41:24","slug":"elinor-brown","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/elinor-brown\/","title":{"rendered":"Elinor Brown"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">It is possible to explore family history and understand it reasonably well, family, on the other hand, is always a mystery.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5658\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5658\" style=\"width: 190px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/alice-ruth-and-elinor.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5658\" alt=\"Alice, Ruth and Elinor\" src=\"http:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/alice-ruth-and-elinor-190x300.jpg\" width=\"190\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/alice-ruth-and-elinor-190x300.jpg 190w, https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/alice-ruth-and-elinor-95x150.jpg 95w, https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/alice-ruth-and-elinor-127x200.jpg 127w, https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/alice-ruth-and-elinor.jpg 404w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 190px) 100vw, 190px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5658\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Alice, Ruth and Elinor<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>The problem with trying to understand your own family is that you were a child when you first encountered these mysterious people.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Your views on each of them are colored by the nuclear family you grew up in and even that nuclear family had its secrets, lots of them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u00a0<span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>This is why family historians are always asking themselves, &#8220;Why didn&#8217;t I know this?&#8217; or &#8220;Why didn&#8217;t I spend more time with this person?&#8221; or one of a thousand other questions usually accompanied by slapping the forehead and saying, &#8220;Duh!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0I did some forehead smacking recently when I discovered a 1977 article from The Jewish Exponent of Philadelphia about my cousin Elinor Brown.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Elinor is my first cousin, once removed, or put in language I actually understand; she was my grandmother&#8217;s sister&#8217;s kid.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u00a0<span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>I knew Elinor when I was growing up.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>We weren&#8217;t as close to my grandmother&#8217;s family, but we saw them from time to time.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>They came to our weddings and Bar Mitzvahs; we went to theirs.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>There was no estrangement that I know of, there just didn&#8217;t seem to be a lot of communication, but what do I know, I was a dumb kid.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<figure id=\"attachment_5657\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5657\" style=\"width: 220px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/bill-alice-elinor-ruth.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5657\" alt=\"Elinor Brown (top right) with her father and sisters, Alice and Ruthe\" src=\"http:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/bill-alice-elinor-ruth-220x300.jpg\" width=\"220\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/bill-alice-elinor-ruth-220x300.jpg 220w, https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/bill-alice-elinor-ruth-110x150.jpg 110w, https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/bill-alice-elinor-ruth-754x1024.jpg 754w, https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/bill-alice-elinor-ruth-147x200.jpg 147w, https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/bill-alice-elinor-ruth.jpg 1727w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 220px) 100vw, 220px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5657\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Elinor Brown (top right) with her father and sisters,<br \/>Alice and Ruthe<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Elinor was born in 1898, so she was about 50 years older than I am.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>As a child I suppose she was just another old person to me, but I knew Elinor when I was an adult in my twenties and thirties.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Why then did I know so little about her?<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u00a0<span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>The article from The Jewish Exponent of Philadelphia is about Elinor&#8217;s career in the advertising business.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>I knew she was in business of some kind and I knew she was successful, but I never thought about what it must have been like for a woman of her generation to be in business.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u00a0<span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>Elinor began writing for the Yiddish newspaper, Der Tag, which was owned by her father.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>After high school Elinor went to secretarial school in Syracuse.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Secretarial work, after all, was what women did until they got married.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Elinor came home for the summer and took a job in the secretarial pool at an ad agency.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>She never returned to school and somehow made it from the secretarial pool to space and media buying.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>She was the only woman in that area.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u00a0<span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>She made the next big jump when she heard that the Contadina Company was looking for an ad agency.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>She flew to Chicago and convinced Contadina&#8217;s parent company to hire the E.L.Brown Agency.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>This was the birth of the agency.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>When she arranged a banquet for Contadina dealers she ran into a bit of a problem.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u00a0<span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>This from the Jewish Exponent, &#8220;I finished making the arrangements with the hotel management, went up to my suite to change, and decided to go down for a drink.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>But they turned me away at the bar&#8211;unaccompanied women were not allowed in.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0I was furious!<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Here I had just finished spending God knows how much money in that hotel, and I couldn&#8217;t go to the bar.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>I grabbed the assistant manager and told him my story. He finally escorted me into the bar and sat with me while I had my drink.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>But&#8211;imagine!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u00a0<span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>It was a problem that would persist so she dealt with it.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>&#8220;I hired a man whose only function in the agency was to pick up the check.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>He traveled with me wherever I went, all over the country, and that&#8217;s all he did.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Pick up the check.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u00a0<span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>What can I say, it&#8217;s brilliant, appalling, and yet awfully funny.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0There are a lot more stories I could tell about this interesting woman and her long and successful life.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>She married twice, had children and grandchildren and worked into her 80&#8217;s.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>I am delighted to know more about this early feminist.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>I&#8217;m just sorry I didn&#8217;t get to hear her stories from her.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 It is possible to explore family history and understand it reasonably well, family, on the other hand, is always a mystery. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 The problem with trying to understand your own family is that you were a child when you &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/elinor-brown\/\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Elinor Brown<\/span> Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[132,131,75],"class_list":["post-5652","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-misc","tag-bublick-family","tag-leaf-family","tag-silver-family"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5652","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5652"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5652\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5660,"href":"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5652\/revisions\/5660"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5652"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5652"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/genealogygals.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5652"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}